As mentioned, there's really no difference as many are adapted to calling it coding from the early days. Programming however, has that "professional" sense when you mention it.

"Currently codin' some booleans bro, wbu?"

"I'm programming this top-end software that will be deployed on the play store by the end of this month!"

For me, it has to be java.

The very first language i laid my hands on was java, and i didn't touch any other language for well over a year. However, I really enjoy programming in python as i like the syntax and functionality of the language.