Uh. I was trying to be polite. I'll be a little less polite and more clear. This post had nothing to do with gender, but you and OP decided to make it about gender identity. I don't think I'm alone in saying that when people bring up gender identity out of absolutely nowhere, we roll our eyes and say "Oh God, here we go again." Not everything is about gender, ok? Sometimes we just need a break. I don't think I'm asking much.

Psst. A friendly tip from someone who agrees with you strongly. Don't use "pronoun using" as an insult. It's not the own you think it is. Normally I wouldn't say anything, but I agree with your larger point and want you to be heard.

"Since you don't seem to understand" Why are mods like this?